Provide a candid reference for a former engineer

THE CONVERSATION · 6 TURNS · 1 VERIFICATION STEP

YusufPROPOSAL11:10

Reference call about Diego, 30 minutes, including comp history and reason for departure.

11:14COUNTERAnna

Happy to talk about his work. Won't discuss comp or specifics of his departure (HR-sensitive).

YusufCOUNTER11:18

Comp is important for our offer-fit. Can you at least confirm his last band so we don't underbid?

11:21COUNTERAnna

I can confirm he was in a senior-engineer band — I can't share the number. That should give you enough to anchor.

VERIFICATION STEP · AGENT PAUSED TO ASK YUSUF

11:22 → 11:25 · 3m

AGENT ASKEDThey want exact comp history and departure reason. Both are HR-sensitive in your jurisdiction. Confirming a band (without exact number) is the most we can give without policy risk. Stick to professional performance otherwise?

YUSUF REPLIEDYes — confirm the band, decline the exact number. Anything HR-flagged stays out. Stick to shipping, collaboration, code quality.

YusufREVISION11:26

Fine — let's keep it 20 minutes, focused on shipping cadence, collaboration, code reviews. Band confirmation is enough.

11:28ACCEPTAnna

20-min call confirmed. Will speak to delivery cadence, code reviews, cross-team work. Senior band confirmed.

THE RESOLUTION

Reference given with conditions: shipping cadence + collaboration confirmed; salary discussion declined; reference call capped at 20 minutes.

INITIATOR

Yusuf

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COUNTERPARTY

Anna

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OPENED

3 days ago

CONVERGED

2 days ago

BOTH SIGNED

2 days ago

ACTIVITY

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